Mary Gabrielle Bernard

WINSTED — Mary Gabrielle Bernard, 83, died on Dec. 6, 2010, at Charlotte Hungerford Hospital in Torrington following a short illness.

She was born in Winsted, the ninth child of Anna (Roy) and Desire Bernard, who had emigrated from French Canada the year before. She attended St. Anthony and The Gilbert Schools, then received a B.A. and M.S. from Boston University and an R.N. from the New England Deaconess Hospital in Boston. She studied for a year at the University of Paris. Her work included teaching history and French at a high school on Martha’s Vineyard and working in the intensive care unit at the Deaconess.

For 30 years she worked for the Massachusetts Department of Mental Health, first as a head nurse at the Massachusetts Mental Health Center, then as a community hospital liaison nurse at South Shore and as director of a day-treatment center and long-term follow-up care for chronic schizophrenic patients. Her lifelong interests were books, classical music and politics, with special concern for civil rights, labor, woman’s liberation and perennial struggles against the scourge of violence that produced in her lifetime five major wars and pervasive violence against women all over the globe.

In 1976, she and a group of women in Cambridge, Mass., started Transition House, one of the first shelters for battered women. She was a longtime member of the National Organization for Women and belonged to the Democratic Socialists of America, Planned Parenthood, National Abortion Rights Action League, The Freedom From Religion Foundation and the Winsted Peace Action Group.

Her survivors include numerous nieces and nephews.

There will be no religious services and no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Winsted Peace Action Group. To leave an online condolence, visit maloneyfuneral.com.

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