Avoid silly baby names

OK, I guess I am officially what a friend calls a “wrinkly.” But I am always finding mental cracks in people’s thinking — especially when it comes to their children. I do not know what is wrong with some parents, but they seem determined to punish their kids ahead of time, all the while they think they are doing good. So, here is a list of my least favorite baby names currently in the news.Victoria Beckham gave birth to a daughter and promptly named the poor kid Harper Seven. Why seven? You have to be a soccer fan. It has nothing to do with their other three kids — wait for it — Brooklyn, Romeo and Cruz. Oh, and those are boys, by the way.Then we come to that whacko Toronto family determined to disprove the nature vs. nurture argument. They had a child whose gender they are refusing to disclose — my guess is about 100 hospital people already know — and named him/her Storm. No, perhaps not after the comic superhero, although if it is a girl, school friends will be expecting foul weather. What they had in mind was bringing up their child as a “neutral gender” with the “opportunity to be creative and free from social norms that dictate male and female behavior.” Yeah, sure. Wait until their previous two kids, both boys, Jazz and Kio (great parents, no?) help change a diaper. Game’s over!OK, we’ve all long known that celebrities, who need to brighten their lives, poor dears, have toyed with weird names for decades. There are Moon Unit, Dweezil, Ahmet and Diva Zappa from Frank Zappa, who was presumably smoking something at the time. Model Shannyn Sossamon named her son Audio Science. Calling his name may sound like a yodeling contest. Arthur Ashe had named his kid in tribute to the mother’s career as a photographer, so was born Camera Ashe. Male or female? You can guess.Gwen Stefani named her kid after a video game: Zuma. That fun weirdo Bob Geldorf has three daughters (at least you can tell the gender), Hiraani Tiger Lily, Peaches Honeyblossom and Fifi Trixibell. The magician Penn Jillette named his kids Zolten (Dracula’s dog; say woof woof, Junior) and Moxie CrimeFighter. Nick Cage named his son Kal-El (think Superman’s dad). Gwyneth Paltrow named her daughter Apple (as in a bite out of?). Sly Stallone named one of his kids Sage Moonblood (boy or girl?). Of course then there’s David Bowie, who chose Zowie, which is kind of fitting until you call him Zowie Bowie which makes a statement. As soon as he could he changed it to Joey. Jamie Oliver, that purveyor of sensible eating, lets his hair down when it comes to naming his kids: Poppy Honey and Petal Blossom Rainbow. Almost good enough to eat. The list seems endless.And to cap it off, members of the public are not to be outdone by celebrities. There’s Facebook, born to Egyptian parents, ESPN, born to a Mississippi couple who watch too much TV, Superman, born to a New Zealand family, and, never to be outdone for inanity, Adolf Hitler Campbell, born to a couple in New Jersey (who promptly were found to be unfit parents and the kids were removed).And on my personal radar was a very nice man from Thailand who was named, quite normally in Thai but everywhere in America he had severe problems: Phuc, and yes, it was pronounced that way. He chose a nickname: Bob.Peter Riva, formerly of Amenia Union, lives in New Mexico.

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