The mind moves in mysterious ways for Methodist pastor

Cornwall resident Jane Bean is writing a series of three stories for The Lakeville Journal on area residents who have chosen the ministry as a second career. This is the second in the series; the first, on Kathleen Fitzgibbons, was published July 16 and can be found online at tcextra.com. The next article, about the Rev. Heidi Truax, will appear July 30.

CORNWALL — A connection between the mind and body has long been suspected. Scientists, doctors and spiritual leaders debate the ways the mind can influence how we feel, how we act and how our physical and mental connection influences our lives.

Spiritual centeredness can also affect our well-being, speculates the Rev. Micki Nunn-Miller, pastor of Cornwall’s United Church of Christ.  

“I loved studying the history and doctrines of the Methodist church. I grew up in  the church, but found I was not particularly interested in organized religion.â€

As a psychology major in college, Nunn-Miller wanted to be a therapist.  After being in college for a short time she took a course in religion called Western Religious Heritage, which was taught by an “amazing professor, Liz Clark. She basically changed my life; she made the study of religion so interesting that I couldn’t stop taking classes. So, I added another major: a double major in religion and psychology.â€

As she proceeded with her studies, Nunn-Miller became increasingly fascinated by how religion and psychology interfaced with each other. After graduating, she knew she wanted to continue the study of both topics, and the relationship between the two.  

“I found that about the only place to do that was in divinity school, so I applied, and was accepted, to Duke Divinity School at Duke University†in North Carolina.

After three years of study, Nunn-Miller decided to become a therapist with a theological background, also known as a pastoral counselor. She went on to earn her Ph.D. at Vanderbilt University in religion and personality theory, with a minor in theology.  

After almost four years of study in that field, the degree took a back seat to other life events: marriage and a baby.  

When her son was 3 months old, Nunn-Miller went to work as the minister of counseling in a large church (six ministers on staff).  She saw parishioners in her office who needed counseling, and though she felt it was a great job, she also felt a desire to participate in other parts of the church service, leading worship and prayers, serving communion and preaching.

She decided to seek ordination, feeling that “those credentials would allow me greater access to doing those things in the local church.â€

Nunn-Miller was ordained in 1982, started to work in a local church in 1986, and has been doing it ever since.  

Counseling is a big part of her job, but it has turned out that she loves almost all aspects of being a pastor.  

“So you can see that for me, becoming a minister had little to do with having ‘extra faith,’ or anything like that. We Protestants believe in the priesthood of all believers as outlined by Martin Luther centuries ago. We are all ministers in our daily lives. In my tradition, the United Church of Christ, Congregational, we believe that all are ministers and some are set apart to ‘teach, preach and administer the sacraments.’

“I’ve been surprised where my journey with God has taken me,†she said. “But I am still thrilled to be on the path after all these years!â€

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