Fundraiser planned June 6 to fulfill mission – Northwest Center aims to help all

LAKEVILLE — They say that laughter is the best medicine; but for families in economic need, especially those who can’t afford essential medical costs, there isn’t much to laugh about these days.

It’s one of the ironies of mental health care in particular that, in times of acute stress and anxiety, the people who most need help are least able to afford it.

Part of the mission of CMHA’s Northwest Center for Family Service, which has offices in Lakeville, Torrington, New Milford and Winsted, is to find ways to offer mental health care that families can afford — even when they’re out of work, uninsured and/or just having trouble paying all their bills.

“With the downturn in the economy, many families are impacted by additional stress,†said Dr. Robert Muro, who is the agency’s northwest regional director.“In many cases it is the children who are identified as needing behavioral health support, as they internalize the anxiety of their parents and have difficulty sleeping, eating and socializing.â€

The impact on the children can be subtle but severe, as they begin to struggle in school as a result, or because they begin to seek ways to soothe themselves that can be self-destructive. These can run the gamut from bullying siblings and classmates, experimenting with alcohol and drugs, even contemplating or attempting suicide.

Although this is a difficult economic time for most nonprofits, the Northwest Center has retained its policy of helping everyone, regardless of their ability to pay.

“We see about 30 people a year who are unable to pay anything. And many, many more who can not cover the full cost,†said Melinda Smolkin, vice president of external relations. “And we don’t see them just once; we often need to see them for six months to a year.â€

People tend to cut their therapy short if they feel they can’t pay — and then their problems return, Smolkin said. “That’s why it’s essential to make care available regardless of the client’s ability to pay.â€

The Northwest Center and CMHA have submitted grant applications to help cover some of those client costs. But, “The annual gala is our biggest fundraiser of the year,†Smolkin said. “These funds help to bridge the budget gap. And the event also helps to spread the word about the work we do.â€

The 57-year-old Northwest Center’s decision in 2007 to join forces with CMHA helped stabilize its finances. But times are tough and all nonprofits are losing funding from their traditional supporters (including the state government). 

Meanwhile, the center continues to expand its offerings, to try and make behavioral health less intimidating, and to help families see that it can be as important in some situations as regular medical care.

New services include the Multi Disciplinary Assessment to determine the causes of children’s behavioral problems when they have not responded to therapy. 

The center is working to expand support services to women and children affected by domestic violence, by collaborating with Women’s Support Services in Sharon and Susan B. Anthony in Torrington.

The New Milford office has co-located with a pediatrician’s practice.  In this setting, behavioural health care is viewed by parents as another form of health care available to their children.

Therapist Sharon Charde is now offering a non-therapeutic writing workshop for women. There will be free gender diversity training on May 27 for professionals, funded by the PFLAG Fund of the Berkshire Taconic Community Foundation.  Informal get-togethers for professionals are also being hosted at the center.

At a Glance

Organization: CMHA’s Northwest Center for Family Service

Director: Raymond J. Gorman, president and CEO, full time

Web site: cmhacc.org

Founded in: 1952

Mission:  “Partners in Recovery.†We are dedicated to providing behavioral health services to reach each individual’s goals for recovery.

Biggest annual fundraising event:   Always held in the beginning of June.  This year, “An Evening under the Stars — Tropical Style†will be on Saturday, June 6, in the center’s “backyard.† The Caribbean casual evening will feature music by the Blue Flames steel band, cocktails and grazing, and a silent auction.

How long does it take to plan?  The planning begins in October with the establishment of a new event committee. We always analyze the prior year’s event and decide what event elements to continue and which to change. This year’s committee is co-chaired by Jack O’Connell and Helen Degener, both of Sharon.

Cost to set it up:  For the last few years, the event has been held in the center’s backyard under a rented tent, along with rented chairs, tables, dinnerware, etc.  Total cost is approximately $15,000.  Thanks to the generosity of the community, the event this year is successfully underwritten. Our committee decided in view of the economy to reduce the price of tickets this year, from $125 to $100 for an individual ticket.

How much additional money is raised each year and how? We have an annual appeal that goes out in the late fall and a second appeal in the spring.  The combined appeals raise over $100,000.

How is the money spent: The annual fund and the event proceeds help to provide behavioral health services to those residents who do not have insurance or the means to pay.  In addition, the funding assists the organization in the hiring and training of highly qualified clinicians.

Additional funding sources: Grants from local and private foundations and funds. Grants from the Department of Mental Health and Addiction Services, United Way of Northwest Connecticut and United Way of Western Connecticut.

 Funds or other support from Northwest Corner towns: Last year, the center received from Cornwall, $3,500;  Falls Village, $4,500; North Canaan, $6,000; Sharon,  $8,000;  Salisbury, $13,500; Torrington, $3,220. From the Bissell Fund, $3,800 and from Civic Family Services, $3,500

What can volunteers from the community do to help: Volunteers can work with the development office to help conduct and organize toy drives during the holidays as well as book drives to provide for the many needy children we serve in our community. In addition, volunteers are welcome to help with public relation activities, such as book signings, events and receptions, mailings, etc.

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