Elisabeth Catharine (Van Roden) Van Dyk Tadiello

Elisabeth Catharine (Van Roden) Van Dyk Tadiello was the daughter of  Elisabeth Catharina (Koek)  and Gerard Jacob Theodore Van Roden. She was born June 15, 1913, in Velsen in the province of Ijmuiden, the Netherlands.

She was predeceased by her first husband, Cornelis Van Dyk, who passed away on Sept. 3, 1974.

As a young woman Betty, as she was known, attended the conservatory in Harlem, the Netherlands, and studied voice and violin. She was an accomplished violinist, playing for the Harlem Symphony Orchestra. With her first husband and a child, they survived the Nazi occupation. A second child was born in the closing months of World War II during an American bombing raid.

In 1947, the family immigrated to the United States, by way of Ellis Island, as indentured servants. Unbeknownst to them, they were brought to this country by an illegal moonshiner who wished to benefit from Betty’s husband’s expertise in plants. Federal agents closed the moonshine operation with the help of Van Dyk family members and, as a reward, were allowed to remain in the United States. They moved from Katonah, N.Y., to Sharon in 1950 and to Salisbury later that year.

In 1950, the family moved to the Dwight Harris estate in Salisbury, more recently known as the Crosby estate, on Route 44 near Dutcher’s Bridge. The family worked as caretakers of the estate. In 1965, Betty and her husband opened a flower store in North Canaan, known as Van Dyk Dutch Gardens. The store prospered until his sudden death.

Two years later, Betty met the man who was to be her second husband, Isadore Tadiello, a widower, successful local electrical contractor and Pearl Harbor survivor. They married in 1978 and lived happily in North Canaan and Del Ray Beach, Fla. Isadore and Betty enjoyed many travels together to Europe, Hawaii and the Caribbean until Betty’s recent passing.

Betty was a talented artist. She played the violin, painted needlepoints of Dutch masters, and did floral design and interior decoration.

She leaves behind her beloved husband of 30 years, Isadore Tadiello; two sons and their wives, Cornelis Andre  and Elisabeth Van Dyk of Little Rock Ark.; Bernard Robert and Pamela Nagle Van Dyk of Marstons Mills, Cape Cod, Mass.; two stepsons and their wives, William and Barbara Tadiello of North Canaan; David and Nancy Tadiello of  Charlestown, West Va.; seven grandchildren; and 13 great-grandchildren.

A Mass of Christian burial will be held on March 14 at 11 a.m. in St. Joseph’s Church in North Canaan. There are no calling hours. Burial will be at the convenience of the family later in the spring.  

Memorial donations may be sent either to the Chapel of Adoration Fund in care of St. Joseph’s Church, PO Box 897, North Canaan CT 06018, or to the North Canaan Volunteer Ambulance Corps, PO Box 178, North Canaan, CT 06018.  

Arrangements are under the care of the Newkirk-Palmer Funeral Home in North Canaan.

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