Your neighbors, in profile


 

CORNWALL — Think you know your Cornwall neighbors? You might not know them as well as you think you do — yet. For profiles that manage to be comprehensive without ever being dull, the Cornwall Web site’s "People of Cornwall" page is the place to go.

A growing list of Cornwall folks are the subject of Brenda Underwood’s insightful looks at their lives. "Interesting," Underwood says, doesn’t have to start with an impressive resume.

"The lives they’ve lived, their accomplishments, it’s mind-boggling what people do in a lifetime," Underwood said. "No matter what our credentials, each of us has much to share."

That’s her secret to uncovering the wonderful life experiences people may have nearly forgotten, or deemed unimportant. She has found that people open up to her. Her stories are long because they have much to tell.

"I figure as someone has lived so many years, they deserve a long profile. Even so, they are really very short when you consider all they have done in their lives."

These are not gossipy pieces, and if there were anything juicy to tell, chances are it would not make the final cut. Underwood gives her subjects the opportunity to read and edit their profiles before they are posted.

"I like that I can give people a chance to re-think something they’ve said, or take something out they really don’t want people to know. Not that I think anyone I’ve interviewed has anything to hide. Maybe they just want something to remain private."

Still there are those who refuse, wishing to keep protected lives as such. Nearly everyone needs a little convincing.

"Once they find out I’m not an ogre, that I’m wanting to look at the lives and that they can read it before anyone else sees it, they are fine with it."

In the Australian accent she has not entirely lost in her 42 years in the United States, Underwood tells of moving to Cornwall about five years ago. At what she believes was her first Cornwall Association meeting, President Steve Senzer brought up "People of Cornwall" as a new project for the town’s fledgling Web site.

"He asked if anyone was interested," Underwood recalled. "There was dead silence."

A writer who currently works in the communications office at The Hotchkiss School in Lakeville, Underwood took a few moments in that silence to consider the task and quickly realized it was something she could not only do, but would enjoy.

"I love people and I love Cornwall. It is perfect for me."

Not being very familiar with people is not a drawback for her. That’s turned out to be a non-issue, and it may even be better that she comes in without presumptions about people.

"I spend a lot of time talking with people and writing the story. It really doesn’t matter whether I know them or not."

Underwood and her readers have learned about Fred Bate Sr.’s war years as a mess sergeant, and the support from the community he had when he lost his leg. They saw, through his eyes, the 1955 flood waters that washed away his meat shop.

Pat and Jerry Blakey are the only couple that has been profiled. They told great tales of school days in Cornwall. They became good friends when their third- and fourth-grade classes were combined. Pat recalled years of getting a ride to school after the milkman brought their raw milk. She pined to ride the school bus, the green one nicknamed "the cucumber" for years, just like a "real" student.

Tim Prentice’s amazing artistic career is a focus of his story online. One can also read about a Cornwall legend of sorts his family purchased the year it was born. Hint: it’s nickname is The Mole.

Find out what Olympic sport Charlie Gold tried out for, what Ralph Scoville did for a living before he took up farming, by what means Helen Tennant traveled through Great Britain and how Marc Simont’s artistic talents kept him from the front lines when he was in the military.

With 16 profiles on the site (along with a story of four friends who grew up here long ago, and two more on the way) the committee is planning to broaden its guidelines.

"It has been for the most part about longtime Cornwall residents," Senzer said. "They always have great recollections of their lives and Cornwall history, but we also think it would be great to hear from people who chose to live here, who continue to have lives that evolve and who will affect the future of Cornwall."

The Cornwall Web site is cornwallct.org.

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