Neighborly help and support for a battle with cancer

NORTH CANAAN – When your daughter is battling an incurable illness, and struggling just to get by, what do you do?

If she had the means, Sandy Reineke would gladly pay every dime of Tamara Labaddia’s needs. Instead, she is doing what people here do: holding a fundraiser and depending on the always dependable community spirit.

A newly single mom of Drew and Nicko, now 10 and 13, Labaddia learned nearly two years ago she had an incurable form of bone cancer. She had moved back to her hometown of North Canaan to be near family.

Throughout the trials of treatment, including two bone marrow transplants, were the worse sufferings of wondering how long she would be able to be with her family. There was the stress of inadequate medical insurance, then the inability to work, having to give up her car and the threat of losing her home.

Now 42, Labaddia has had to face the fact that doctors have given her an end date to her life.

“It’s not something we can even think about,� Reineke said. “Tam is very strong and very stubborn and she is still in chemotherapy. They say this not curable, but I think she would have a better chance if she didn’t have so much to worry about. I believe if we can all work to take some of the stress out of her life, it will make a big difference.�

Reineke and other friends are holding a pasta dinner Wednesday, Aug. 15, at Pilgrim House on Granite Avenue in North Canaan. Spaghetti and meatballs, salad and dessert will be served from 5 to 7 p.m.

A drawing for prizes will also be held. Reineke said she should not be surprised, but is overwhelmed at how readily businesses and individuals have donated valuable prizes. To date there are more than 20 donations of items such as a cord of wood, a porcelain cookware set and gift certificates for dining, home supplies, golf, flowers, hairstyling, auto supplies and more.

A 50/50 drawing will also be held. Tickets are $12 for adults and $6 for children ages 6 to 13. Children 5 and under eat free. For advance tickets, call 860-824-7232.

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